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Being
engaged with life takes company! In our 2nd issue
of Engage, we are glad to offer a few
stories of life at 100, stories that encouraged us
to reach out to our family and
friends. Relationships are important
during every stage of life, but as we maneuver
through adulthood we often practice
self-reliance rather than reliance on
others. We hope these stories will encourage you
to find company, and many more interesting years
of life, in the families, apartments, and
community around you.
We hope
you will share Engage with your
family and friends.
Sincerely,
Institute
on Aging
Helping
Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
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Celebrating the Kindness of
Strangers
An assortment of
characters cycles through 101-year-old Elizabeth
Goodyear's apartment every week. Why do a
yoga instructor with tattooed shoulders, a
28-year-old graduate student, and a 48-year-old
real estate broker climb the stairs to her well
lived-in one-bedroom each week? In the
beginning they came to read...and now some
come just to talk.
A lifelong reader, Ms. Goodyear
lost her sight several years ago. Through the
kindness of strangers, she has collected a roster
of volunteers who arrive bearing dark chocolate,
the occasional pet, and a desire to read aloud for
her. Read
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Ruth Ann Rosenburg
Adult Day Health Center Celebrates a 100th
Birthday!
With contributions
by Diane Nathaniel
In
an image worthy of Kodak, Genya Sverzhinskaya sat
between her daughters Klara and Inna and her
great-granddaughter Vicca at her 100th birthday
celebration this summer. The room at
IOA's Adult Day Health Center, where Genya spends
many of her days, was filled with friends and
well-wishers. Mila Gornitskaya, ADHC's recreation
assistant, introduced and translated for Genya's
closest family and friends as they shared happy
memories of the 100-year-old.
Genya moved to California from Moscow 14
years ago and has been a client of ADHC since
October 1999. The center has been a vital part of
her life in the community as well as in the lives
of many other elderly residents of San Francisco.
Read
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Community
Events 4th Annual
Sunset District Autumn Moon Festival
Enjoy delicious food, captivating
entertainment and outstanding art! When:
Saturday, September 13th from 10am-4pm Where:
Irving St., San Francisco, CA between 22nd
& 25th Avenues For more information, please
visit here.
What is Macular
Degeneration?
Learn about eye health and age relation
macular degeneration. A doctor will be available
to answer questions and discuss new treatment
options. When: Wednesday, September
17th Where: Maritime Museum Building 890
Beach St., San Francisco, CA For more
information contact Gloria Garcia at (415)
923-4480
California Academy of Sciences
Opening Celebration Highlights of the
opening will include musical performances, Chinese
acrobats and international-food
tastings. When: Saturday and Sunday, September
27 and 28
Where: Golden Gate Park (Fulton Street to
Lincoln Way). Cost: Free admission Saturday; on
Sunday, $25 adults, $15 ages 7 to 17, younger than
7 free. For more information: call (415)
321-8000 or visit
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ENCOURAGE
Dear
Encourage,
I'm a diabetic who has been
home-bound for five years. Also, I don't have much
of a social network, I've outlived most
of my friends and my wife passed away 10
years ago. I have 2 sons and one daughter who live
far away so I rarely get to see them-maybe twice a
year on holidays. I'm so lonely I don't know what
to do with myself. What do I do?
Dear Stuck At Home,
It is definitely difficult to be
home-bound and coping with a number of medical
problems and physical disabilities. I can
understand why you would feel both lonely and
frustrated. It is easy to start feeling down and
stop trying to reach out to others. I think the
first thing to do is to let the people that you
trust (like your children or friends or folks who
live near you) know that you want to have more
contact with people. It's hard to let people know
you feel distant from them, but they are often
happy to help and find ways to reach out when they
realize that you are struggling. They might have
ideas of ways to increase your contact with
others, such as helping you get to a Senior
center, finding a friendly visitor program, or
connecting you with neighbors or others in your
building (if you are in an apartment) who are also
searching for someone new to talk to. Another
option you may consider is calling Institute on
Aging's free Friendship Line. The Friendship
Line's trained staff and volunteers offer an
ongoing connection for depressed or lonely older
adults who are in situations similar to yours. To
reach the Friendship Line, simply call (415)
752-3778 or call toll free: (800) 971-0016. You
may also want to consider making use of IOA's
in-home psychotherapy services. We regularly work
with individuals' in their homes and
find that individual therapy can help you to
address feeling down and help you find better ways
to cope. Most services are covered by Medicare. If
you are interested in individual therapy at home,
simply call:
415-750-4111.
Do you have a
question about engaging with life as a
senior? Send it our way. Please note, questions
may be printed but will be kept strictly
anonymous. Click here to email
us.
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Every month we highlight a family
tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural
holiday. Please suggest a tradition from
your family! This month's family
tradition:
Rosh Hashanah
The Jewish New
Year
 Rosh Hashanah
begins September 29th at sundown. It's
a celebration of renewal and new beginning, while also
embracing and releasing past difficulty, pain, and loss.
Through song, prayer, and ritual, the community joins
together to celebrate the newness of life. One of the
highlights of the services is the sounding of the shofar
(a ram's horn). The sound of the shofar awakens us
to the necessity of repentance while offering the
promise of redemption. Traditional foods include a round
challah (egg bread) and apples with honey, symbolizing
wholeness and sweetness for the new year. Click here
to find a traditional challah recipe. Enjoy!
We'd like to feature part of your heritage.
Share a recipe, tradition or family story. We'd love to
print it! Click here
to email
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