September/2008
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Being engaged with life takes company! In our 2nd issue of Engage, we are glad to offer a few stories of life at 100, stories that encouraged us to reach out to our family and friends. Relationships are important during every stage of life, but as we maneuver through adulthood we often practice self-reliance rather than reliance on others. We hope these stories will encourage you to find company, and many more interesting years of life, in the families, apartments, and community around you.

 
We hope you will share Engage with your family and friends.
 
Sincerely,
 
Institute on Aging
Helping Bay Area Seniors Live Independently
 
Celebrating the Kindness of Strangers
 
Ms. Goodyear at home 
 
An assortment of characters cycles through 101-year-old Elizabeth Goodyear's apartment every week. Why do a yoga instructor with tattooed shoulders, a 28-year-old graduate student, and a 48-year-old real estate broker climb the stairs to her well lived-in one-bedroom each week? In the beginning they came to read...and now some come just to talk.
 
A lifelong reader, Ms. Goodyear lost her sight several years ago. Through the kindness of strangers, she has collected a roster of volunteers who arrive bearing dark chocolate, the occasional pet, and a desire to read aloud for her.
Read more... 
Ruth Ann Rosenburg Adult Day Health Center Celebrates a 100th Birthday! birthday 
With contributions by Diane Nathaniel  

In an image worthy of Kodak, Genya Sverzhinskaya sat between her daughters Klara and Inna and her great-granddaughter Vicca at her 100th birthday celebration this summer.
 
The room at IOA's Adult Day Health Center, where Genya spends many of her days, was filled with friends and well-wishers. Mila Gornitskaya, ADHC's recreation assistant, introduced and translated for Genya's closest family and friends as they shared happy memories of the 100-year-old.
 
Genya moved to California from Moscow 14 years ago and has been a client of ADHC since October 1999. The center has been a vital part of her life in the community as well as in the lives of many other elderly residents of San Francisco. Read more... 
Community Events  
 
4th Annual Sunset District Autumn Moon Festival
Enjoy delicious food, captivating entertainment and outstanding art!
When: Saturday, September 13th from 10am-4pm
Where: Irving St., San Francisco, CA
between 22nd & 25th Avenues
For more information, please visit here.
 
What is Macular Degeneration?    
Learn about eye health and age relation macular degeneration. A doctor will be available to answer questions and discuss new treatment options. 
When: Wednesday, September 17th
Where: Maritime Museum Building
890 Beach St., San Francisco, CA
For more information contact Gloria Garcia at (415) 923-4480
 
California Academy of Sciences Opening Celebration
Highlights of the opening will include musical performances, Chinese acrobats and international-food tastings.
When: Saturday and Sunday, September 27 and 28
Where: Golden Gate Park (Fulton Street to Lincoln Way).
Cost: Free admission Saturday; on Sunday, $25 adults, $15 ages 7 to 17, younger than 7 free.
For more information: call (415) 321-8000 or visit here.
ENCOURAGE
 
Dear Encourage,
I'm a diabetic who has been home-bound for five years. Also, I don't have much of a social network, I've outlived most of my friends and my wife passed away 10 years ago. I have 2 sons and one daughter who live far away so I rarely get to see them-maybe twice a year on holidays. I'm so lonely I don't know what to do with myself. What do I do?
 
Dear Stuck At Home,

It is definitely difficult to be home-bound and coping with a number of medical problems and physical disabilities. I can understand why you would feel both lonely and frustrated. It is easy to start feeling down and stop trying to reach out to others. I think the first thing to do is to let the people that you trust (like your children or friends or folks who live near you) know that you want to have more contact with people. It's hard to let people know you feel distant from them, but they are often happy to help and find ways to reach out when they realize that you are struggling. They might have ideas of ways to increase your contact with others, such as helping you get to a Senior center, finding a friendly visitor program, or connecting you with neighbors or others in your building (if you are in an apartment) who are also searching for someone new to talk to. Another option you may consider is calling Institute on Aging's free Friendship Line. The Friendship Line's trained staff and volunteers offer an ongoing connection for depressed or lonely older adults who are in situations similar to yours. To reach the Friendship Line, simply call (415) 752-3778 or call toll free: (800) 971-0016. You may also want to consider making use of IOA's in-home psychotherapy services. We regularly work with individuals' in their homes and find that individual therapy can help you to address feeling down and help you find better ways to cope. Most services are covered by Medicare. If you are interested in individual therapy at home, simply call: 415-750-4111.
 
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 Every month we highlight a family tradition, such as a recipe, a craft, or a cultural holiday.  Please  suggest a tradition from your family!

This month's family tradition:
 
Rosh Hashanah
The Jewish New Year 
apples and honey

Rosh Hashanah begins September 29th at sundown. It's a celebration of renewal and new beginning, while also embracing and releasing past difficulty, pain, and loss. Through song, prayer, and ritual, the community joins together to celebrate the newness of life. One of the highlights of the services is the sounding of the shofar (a ram's horn).  The sound of the shofar awakens us to the necessity of repentance while offering the promise of redemption. Traditional foods include a round challah (egg bread) and apples with honey, symbolizing wholeness and sweetness for the new year.

Click here to find a traditional challah recipe. Enjoy! 

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